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May 8

Should A First Time Volunteer Go Alone Or With An Organization?

In my opinion if you’re a first time volunteer and are not familiar with the country you are going to visit, then yes you should most definitely go with an established organization; I went with Projects-Abroad Jamaica.

(This picture was taken after ‘Dirty Day’ on a Friday. We painted bathrooms at a local highschool and the ones who had finished went on the road to wait for taxi’s. I am the one with the purple bag. In just this picture alone there are people from Denmark, Canada, Belgium, USA and Germany.)

The benefits for myself when traveling overseas with an organization had been profound. You get in country help and a crash course on the ‘city’, or parish in my case.

  • I was picked up from the airport and driven to my Host-Families home within a few hours.
  • The second you arrive in country and are picked up from the airport the driver will hand you a package of relevant information like a map of the country, phone numbers of all volunteers and officers, the date and time to be ready for orientation, what to wear, etc.
  • I was taken on a tour of the town and shown where important key markers were; like the KFC at the top of town, and the Juicy Patties closer to the end of town where locals used to take a short cut and volunteers would take to go up to the main organization office.
  • I was taken to a Digicel store to buy a temporary phone with a Sim card (the US does not use this type of system, though it is used in almost every other country.)
  • I was shown where I needed to go to change the currency in town from USD to JAD.
  • I was shown where the post office was, the police station, the hospital, the banks, grocery store, ATM’s, and MOST importantly where to go to catch a taxi back home and to work.
  • Can you BELIEVE sometimes up to TEN people would be jammed into 1 car? … that normally seats 5?! You better believe it… we were sitting on top of each other half the time!
  • In addition to that, I was taken by my CARE project officer to the Orphanage where I would be working and shown where to catch a taxi there and back.
  • I was picked up from my home by this CARE project officer and shown the proper way to greet someone when entering into a taxi. Either with “Hello, Good Morning, Afternoon, Goodnight, etc.”
  • I was told the amount of taxi fare I would pay for simple trips from home to town and from work to town which is 90 JAD.
  • I was also told the amount I would pay if I were to be dropped off directly in front of my house, 120 JAD.
  • And then explained that on after hours, which vary greatly between taxi drivers who often just make up their minds if they are tired and want to go home, fares can be up to 1,000 JAD or more. However, this amount normally meant they were trying to pull one over on us because we were ‘stupid foreigners’.
  • To show me the path, my CARE officer and I walked the 30 minutes each way to the office where our weekly meetings would be held and any events like a Language and Culture class or International Day and also for our monthly extra group volunteer day somewhere else in the community; this was called Dirty Day.
  • Weekly meetings are held with a group of volunteers in different sections. For example the CARE volunteers all serving in Orphanges around the area would have a meeting for 1 hour with the CARE projects officer. We would play team building games and go around to each person talking about how our weeks went and how we can make it better. If there are any concerns about how the facility is being handled, culturally for example, then we voice our concerns and have talks about culture differences; like corporal punishment often used in Jamaica’s schools, home and Orphanages.
  • In addition to solving problems, these group volunteer activities forces each other to talk and become friends and to socialize with other people in the same situations.
  • My care officer then had lunch with me at Juicy Patties and helped me figure out the paying process.
  • After a few weeks I hadn’t been drinking enough water and my CARE officer was right there trying to figure out how to make it better.
  • In addition to that, they are always there to listen to your needs and if you have a problem with your host family or your work place, she was there to jot down the issues and contact each individual to figure out how to fix the problems.
  • My roommate and I had an issue with the amount of money we had to pay to use the washing machine; and though it made the conversation awkward, they were contacted and the fees were dropped.
  • If you have any medical needs they refer you to a doctor (the medical insurance is included in your overall fee.)
  • On the day of your orientation you get a Projects-Abroad T Shirt that you wear every last Friday of the month for Dirty Day.
  • For the first two weeks they bring you in to ask questions about your host-family life like, “Are you getting enough water?”, “Getting enough food?”, “Getting along with your Host-Family?” and have you rate each category.
  • And at the end of your service you fill out questions about your overall experience.

A few cons:

  • Some volunteers were irritated that they felt like they were being ‘babysat’.
  • If you are going to be traveling for the weekends, you must fill out a paper saying where you are going and with who.
  • If volunteers have an issue with someone (maybe even just concern) and it is brought to the attention of the officers, then they will have a talk with you.
  • ALL activities are mandatory. This means everything from a dance class to weekly meetings. If you don’t attend classes or meetings you will not get your certification of completion.
  • They have a strict dress code for CARE and TEACHING positions. But this is just because Jamaica is actually a conservative country (give or take some people, just like anywhere.) And Projects-Abroad would like to keep up with their reputation within the country.
  • You cannot wear anything above the knee (which is EXTREMELY annoying because of how hot it is) and cannot wear sleeveless anything, no leggings, and must remove all piercing except for one set of earrings and cover all tattoos.

Over all, Projects-Abroad Jamaica was exactly the type of help I needed to get me comfortable with my surroundings knowing that I had someone to back me up if I needed it.

Apr 17
Packing Light How To! Though not my style. As always, pack your style with these guidelines in mind. 

“Packing light doesn’t come easily to most people. However, it’s a skill you can hone with a little planning and organization. Here’s some of my best tips for evolving into a light packer.

1.  Choose versatile clothing and footwear that fit into your travel activities. Versatile clothing means you pack fewer items, especially if they can do double duty.


2. Stick to simple color schemes and patterns so that all clothing mixes and matches.  Separates give you lots of outfit possibilities.  Add colorful accents if desired.

3. A packing list can help you organize the items you’re bringing. Critically look at the packing list and see where items can be eliminated or replaced with lightweight or double duty items.

4.  Do what I call a “shakedown” a week or so before departure.  Lay everything out that’s on your packing list and make sure all clothing coordinates.  Try things on if necessary because you may not have access to a full-length mirror during your trip and you want to ensure all your outfits fit well.  Edit out any unnecessary items.  Note any thing you might be missing.

5. Bring enough outfits to last a few days and plan on laundering clothing. That can mean doing laundry in hotel/hostel sinks, laundromats, or using a laundry service.

6. Lightweight materials dry quicker and take up less space than bulky knits. Look for clothing made from modal, viscose, rayon, tencel, cotton blends or lightweight cotton. Avoid 100% bulky cotton clothing, it takes too long to air dry and takes up too much precious space.

7.  Wear bulky items on travel days. Items such as jeans, sweaters, boots, and coats worn on travel days keep your luggage light.

8.  Choose clothes that help you layer appropriately for the weather conditions of your destination.

9. Accessories increase your outfit options and keep your looks from being boring. A belt changes a look instantly, so can a scarf. Introduce color and pattern in you accessories if you like.

10. Pack double duty toiletry items. If you are carrying on luggage make sure all toiletry items meet TSA standards.

11. Keep your secondary carry on bag light as well. There’s nothing worse than lugging around a heavy carry-on in addition to your luggage (I’ve been there).

12. Constantly edit and evaluate what you plan on bringing. Look at your packing list after a trip and note any unused items.  This will help you pack for your next trip and become a light traveler.”

Via travelista

Packing Light How To! Though not my style. As always, pack your style with these guidelines in mind.

“Packing light doesn’t come easily to most people. However, it’s a skill you can hone with a little planning and organization. Here’s some of my best tips for evolving into a light packer.

1. Choose versatile clothing and footwear that fit into your travel activities. Versatile clothing means you pack fewer items, especially if they can do double duty.


2. Stick to simple color schemes and patterns so that all clothing mixes and matches. Separates give you lots of outfit possibilities. Add colorful accents if desired.

3. A packing list can help you organize the items you’re bringing. Critically look at the packing list and see where items can be eliminated or replaced with lightweight or double duty items.

4. Do what I call a “shakedown” a week or so before departure. Lay everything out that’s on your packing list and make sure all clothing coordinates. Try things on if necessary because you may not have access to a full-length mirror during your trip and you want to ensure all your outfits fit well. Edit out any unnecessary items. Note any thing you might be missing.

5. Bring enough outfits to last a few days and plan on laundering clothing. That can mean doing laundry in hotel/hostel sinks, laundromats, or using a laundry service.

6. Lightweight materials dry quicker and take up less space than bulky knits. Look for clothing made from modal, viscose, rayon, tencel, cotton blends or lightweight cotton. Avoid 100% bulky cotton clothing, it takes too long to air dry and takes up too much precious space.

7. Wear bulky items on travel days. Items such as jeans, sweaters, boots, and coats worn on travel days keep your luggage light.

8. Choose clothes that help you layer appropriately for the weather conditions of your destination.

9. Accessories increase your outfit options and keep your looks from being boring. A belt changes a look instantly, so can a scarf. Introduce color and pattern in you accessories if you like.

10. Pack double duty toiletry items. If you are carrying on luggage make sure all toiletry items meet TSA standards.

11. Keep your secondary carry on bag light as well. There’s nothing worse than lugging around a heavy carry-on in addition to your luggage (I’ve been there).

12. Constantly edit and evaluate what you plan on bringing. Look at your packing list after a trip and note any unused items. This will help you pack for your next trip and become a light traveler.”

Via travelista

Apr 4

It is finally Spring! Summer is now officially around the corner, which makes writing a blog geared toward the perfect (though not always thanks to the odd rain showers) tropical Jamaican weather a lot easier. While it does keep your imagination alive to dream about wearing shorts and breezy tops in the dead of winter, it really is a whole lot enjoyable to look outside your window and see flowers blooming then it was to see ice sickles covering bare branches.
Jamaica’s normal temperatures are in the 80s.
Though this is determined by your proximity to the coast. The further inland and the higher the elevation, it is tipically cooler.
The coast can reach well into the 90s in the day and 80s at night.
And inland the days will be hot and nights cooler, though hardly ever cold.
So, taking into account the drastic change in weather here in one of the California mountains and also to the shift of images and trends in magazines, I am doing a post about spring colors!
The Spring colors are pastels, normally for bottoms. This means skinny jeans, legging jeans, shorts and cropped jeans in pastels like coral, light lime, mint, yellow, and some blues.
Tops are also pastels or of a brighter color and have been paired mostly with colors opposite on the color wheel. For example, coral and blue.
Mix and match colors you wouldnt normally put together!
No crazy neon’s and reds. Blah. That doesn’t read easy breezy and summery does it?
First and foremost this blog consists primarily of tips on style, culture, and travel information while volunteering in Jamaica but second, it is for curvy women. So with that in mind curvy women normally stay away from bright colors that could bring attention to parts of their bodies they would like to conceal. As a rule of thumb most wear dark colors on the bottom to appear thinner. I personally covet the coca cola body shape (small on top, big hips) so I don’t mind that my hips may appear bigger (I know, you may think that is crazy.) And for those of you who may be like me, colors on the bottoms is a good choice. Those who prefer to wear dark colors on the bottom should branch out with festive colors on the top, coral being my favorite!
Colors will bring attention to your body, so pastels on the bottom may be a weary choice for curvy girls who want to minimize their trouble areas.
For those who love the coca cola body shape, colors on the bottom are great!
And if you’re like me and dont like your arms, a great option is a sheer light weight cardigan in a summer color that you can mix and match.

 
 
Spring Colors by fattieja featuring a button front shirt

It is finally Spring! Summer is now officially around the corner, which makes writing a blog geared toward the perfect (though not always thanks to the odd rain showers) tropical Jamaican weather a lot easier. While it does keep your imagination alive to dream about wearing shorts and breezy tops in the dead of winter, it really is a whole lot enjoyable to look outside your window and see flowers blooming then it was to see ice sickles covering bare branches.

  • Jamaica’s normal temperatures are in the 80s.
  • Though this is determined by your proximity to the coast. The further inland and the higher the elevation, it is tipically cooler.
  • The coast can reach well into the 90s in the day and 80s at night.
  • And inland the days will be hot and nights cooler, though hardly ever cold.

So, taking into account the drastic change in weather here in one of the California mountains and also to the shift of images and trends in magazines, I am doing a post about spring colors!

  • The Spring colors are pastels, normally for bottoms. This means skinny jeans, legging jeans, shorts and cropped jeans in pastels like coral, light lime, mint, yellow, and some blues.
  • Tops are also pastels or of a brighter color and have been paired mostly with colors opposite on the color wheel. For example, coral and blue.
  • Mix and match colors you wouldnt normally put together!
  • No crazy neon’s and reds. Blah. That doesn’t read easy breezy and summery does it?

First and foremost this blog consists primarily of tips on style, culture, and travel information while volunteering in Jamaica but second, it is for curvy women. So with that in mind curvy women normally stay away from bright colors that could bring attention to parts of their bodies they would like to conceal. As a rule of thumb most wear dark colors on the bottom to appear thinner. I personally covet the coca cola body shape (small on top, big hips) so I don’t mind that my hips may appear bigger (I know, you may think that is crazy.) And for those of you who may be like me, colors on the bottoms is a good choice. Those who prefer to wear dark colors on the bottom should branch out with festive colors on the top, coral being my favorite!

  • Colors will bring attention to your body, so pastels on the bottom may be a weary choice for curvy girls who want to minimize their trouble areas.
  • For those who love the coca cola body shape, colors on the bottom are great!
  • And if you’re like me and dont like your arms, a great option is a sheer light weight cardigan in a summer color that you can mix and match.
 
 

Mar 21
curvynfitcali:

Always thinking about escaping, always dreaming about it. It is very difficult. What a way to live…

curvynfitcali:

Always thinking about escaping, always dreaming about it. It is very difficult.

What a way to live…

Mar 2
Feb 13
Remember all my ranting about lipstick? Instantly lights up your face; which is EXACTLY what you want at the end of a long and sweaty day at work.Trust me.

Remember all my ranting about lipstick? Instantly lights up your face; which is EXACTLY what you want at the end of a long and sweaty day at work.

Trust me.

(Source: curvynation)

Jan 7

Lets talk, Laundry.

Jamaica is not like the States, especially when it come to laundry. The majority of households do not own a washing machine and most definitely (almost always) do not own a dryer. If you are lucky to come across a hostel with a washer or a host-family with one, then you are blessed; like I had been.

Though it still will cost you a crazy amount in the opinion of my roommate and myself to use the facilities 1500JMD ($17.34 USD) EVERY load. This seemed a bit extreme, though I had been willing to pay because I realised it was how it had always been with the previous volunteers. My roommate though, had a different idea of this and ultimately lead to the, somewhat embarrassing and awkward conversation, with our host family. Needless to say, they allowed us not to pay anything which I wont lie, really helped with my financial situation from then on.

  • To avoid a potentially awkward run in with your host-family, come prepared with the laundry knowledge. What is this you say? Be prepared to pay for the washer. It uses water and electricity which obviously raises their bill. Keep in mind also, that they do not wash as often as you may and there for keep the bill pretty low. Also, In Jamaica they use water tanks and not a piping system which means they have to have people come refill the tanks for the shower, kitchen, and anything else that requires water. It IS going to be expensive, especially if you plan on keeping up your cleaning routine like you are used to back home. But that is just it, you are not home, so try to adjust to your surroundings accordingly.

However, the majority of volunteers did not have a washer and had to wash all their clothing by hand. We are all very used to the finer things in life, so much so that the excessive technology for others has become a necessity for us. Though it is important to point out that the Caribbean weather is quite different from the rest of the world, and where it is doable to hang your clothing out to dry during the day in Jamaica, it is impossible in a place that snows, obviously.

There is a possiblity that there are laundry mats around your area, but don’t count on it. If you do happen to find one, chances are it way further then you wished it would be. Meaning, one, two, and possibly three taxi rides to your destination. Walking to and from each taxi stand, lugging around all your baby puke and sweat stained smelly laundry in a packed to the brim taxi cab. HA! Pretty funny right? 

  • You will be doing your laundry in the sink or outside, do not kid yourself. Buy some solid soap sheets like this one. (Sorry for the annoying URL, for some reason the attach link isn’t working **http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B000Y0CL8K/worldscheapes-20** I cant really coach you much on this side of things, but this is how my lovely second Jamaica laundry trip is looking. So, I better start learning a thing or two, too.  

So, this whole Laundry situation is important to know when packing. Which, I had gave little thought about apparently. Ohhhh, so you are telling me that the more clothes you pack, the more you need to wash? Meaning more loads? More money? AND more trouble? Wowwww, who would have known?

  • Pack light. Jeggings are the heaviest clothing option you should go for. Anything more seems like a disaster.
  • Buy clothes hangers to hang outside on the wire (assuming they have one and you are able to utilize it). Otherwise, youll just be hanging it over a rail or on a tree branch… hell I really am not sure. I am hoping the first is an option. GOODLUCK, damn laundry.
Nov 23
I feel suffocated here. All I want to do, is pack a hiking backpack and leave… go far far away.

I feel suffocated here. All I want to do, is pack a hiking backpack and leave… go far far away.

Nov 22
What type of shoes would you recommend packing?
— Anonymous

I would recommend sandals and flat boots.

You will be walking a lot, probably more then you would back home. I bought tan sandals on sale for $7.00, which worked well for the first month but started to fall apart towards the end of my service. I’d stick with the sandals that clasp around the ankle so they don’t fall off or someone doesn’t step on the backs by mistake.

Go for a lighter brown or tan color so it doesn’t make you look shorter, and also because the red clay poses a problem for anyone who hate for white shoes to turn brown.

Also, my Dutch roommate, by some miracle, had a really strong industrial type of glue that I used to glue back the flaps of my shoes. Would be smart to invest in that as well!

Now, why couldn’t I be that smart! Luckily now, you at least know. And good luck!

Oct 3
There are three major jacket pieces that you need in your wardrobe. 
A jean jacket that hits at your waist to wear with dresses, jeans and everything in between. This American Eagle jean jacket is really soft, which is perfect for me. I hate being restricted in clothing, this one in particular allows movement. I personally don’t like a jean jacket to hit at my hips because one, it isn’t flattering on my short figure. And also, I love my waist and want to show if off, even if the jacket is supposed to be a loose fit. If it hits at your waist, its most likely going to be flattering, especially with dresses. I hate my arms, so I always need a dress with sleeves, or to find cute overlayers to go over them… without looking like a chubby little girl with a shrug.
A nice leather jacket, with a resonable price. I havent tried this jacket on yet, but I love the color. The fit is, of course, important. So try it out first.
A cardigan that isn’t short and that is sheer to let your skin breath in the hot weather. A longer fit is ideal because you can wear it with a dress, or with jeggings that require a little length for your back side and you know… not to reveal your cooch. Just sayin’.
Three Key Overlayers by fattieja featuring zip jackets

There are three major jacket pieces that you need in your wardrobe.

  • A jean jacket that hits at your waist to wear with dresses, jeans and everything in between. This American Eagle jean jacket is really soft, which is perfect for me. I hate being restricted in clothing, this one in particular allows movement. I personally don’t like a jean jacket to hit at my hips because one, it isn’t flattering on my short figure. And also, I love my waist and want to show if off, even if the jacket is supposed to be a loose fit. If it hits at your waist, its most likely going to be flattering, especially with dresses. I hate my arms, so I always need a dress with sleeves, or to find cute overlayers to go over them… without looking like a chubby little girl with a shrug.
  • A nice leather jacket, with a resonable price. I havent tried this jacket on yet, but I love the color. The fit is, of course, important. So try it out first.
  • A cardigan that isn’t short and that is sheer to let your skin breath in the hot weather. A longer fit is ideal because you can wear it with a dress, or with jeggings that require a little length for your back side and you know… not to reveal your cooch. Just sayin’.

Three Key Overlayers by fattieja featuring zip jackets



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